I started this blog three and a half years ago. With a certain amount of naivety it must be said.
If I took a picture of a child that wasn’t mine that I wanted to blog then I asked the mother, father or whoever was looking after the child at the time if it was ok to blog the picture. I can’t think of an instance where anyone refused. I’m not sure if it makes a difference or not, but it was mostly mothers I had contact with.
It seems, however, that that wasn’t enough. I’ve posted some pictures of a couple of children where I had permission from the mother to post. The father, however, has recently informed me that he is not happy for the pictures to be on my blog.
I understand his point of view. I didn’t ask his permission and they are his children too. Lesson learnt. From now on you will only see pictures of me and mine, or children where I have permission from both parents. Probably in writing.
While understanding his point of view, however, I can’t say that I’m not upset about it. This is my blog. I’m careful about what and who I post on it. If you know us personally then of course we’re identifiable and so are our friends whose pictures I put up. If you know us personally though, why would I worry?
I’ve put a lot of time and effort into this little blog and am quietly proud of it. It’s been three and a half years in the making and it charts our history in, I think, a charming way. To have someone ask me to take pictures down feels to me like a criticism of my judgement.
Anyway, that is neither here not there, so as you wander around my space you’ll see some pictures with children blanked out. I won’t take pictures off (unless they feature only a particular child) and I won’t re-write our history. I’ve also taken off links to another blog that I know features pictures of the children.
I just hope that’s good enough, (given that legal action has been mentioned).